Online friendship...
Online friendship or net friendship... the new invention or rather we can say the gift of science and has to some extent replaced the real-time friendship .but a question arises in our mind that is it really good to make online friends??? Can online friendship in real sense replace the real-time friendship???
I think the possible reason for this is that most of today’s jobs are net based and this can be because of globalization ,modernization etc etc and people are connected in such a way to this virtual hub that they don not want to nor do they get any opportunity to go out and talk with their real time friends. thus online friends help to fill a certain hallow, the state of loneliness which a person feels when our friends are not near.
Thus people can chat with online friends, while doing their work or in their free time as well. They can share their thoughts; they can share happiness etc though not face to face. That’s why some people say that online friendship is good.
Another thing about online friendship is that we become friend of such a person whom we don’t know as we never saw that person so there arises no question that friendship has been made after seeing the face or status etc etc and we make friendship only after knowing his/her attitude, his /her inner person not the false thing like personality.
Once you find a person interesting ,worthy of friendship, you continue friendship with that person and once you feel that the person is not of such type, not showing good qualities, you can stop messaging or chatting with person.
There are so many good things about online friendship but is it really better than real-time friendship. For some people it can be good but do think that it can replace real-time friendship?
Any type of relationship between two persons develops only when they know each other. If we look at our real time friends we have never make an unknown person our friend unless and until we make acquaintance with that person, but on net we do not know who the person is, what his/her identity is, where from he/she is then how can a good relationship develop. No matter online friends tell you about themselves but do you think that’s 100% truth?
It is not possible to tell net friend everything about our self and we can only talk on simple things. With real-time friends we can talk about our personal life as well as we trust them which is lacking in online friendship. Online friendship can be a good time pass but sometimes you face problems as some wrong persons get in touch with you, who create problems for you.
Online friendship lacks the charm of association and interaction which you enjoy with your real-time friends.
The most appropriate name for it should be virtual friendship rather than online friendship because everything here is virtual. Emotions are virtual, image of that person is virtual etc...but still a virtual friendship can turn to true real friendship if both are sincere in cultivating a real friendship.
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